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‘Much of society has lost sight of the purpose of marriage, equates it with adults’ companionship’ — Bishop Robert Barron

Welcoming families to church is not just the job of the pastor. (CNS photo)

By Russell Shaw

There’s a glimmer of hope for the embattled natural family emanating suddenly from a source that lately has been anything but family-friendly — I mean the federal government. But before getting into that, consider some landmarks in the family’s decline during the last three decades.

The high point was 1996 when Congress enacted and President Bill Clinton reluctantly signed into law the Defense of Marriage Act. DOMA declared marriage to be the union of one man and one woman and empowered states to decline to recognize same-sex marriages from other states.

The years after DOMA were marked by an all-out effort by the LGBTQ lobby, supported by a media blitz, to turn that around. The Supreme Court got on board in 2015 by affirming a constitutionally protected right to same-sex marriage. Then, last December, Congress passed a horror called the Respect for Marriage Act repealing DOMA and insisting on across the board government recognition of same-sex marriage. President Joe Biden, a pro-DOMA vote as a senator, happily signed it into law before Christmas.

Religion writer Russell Shaw poses for a photo in his Silver Spring, Md., home Aug. 28, 2019. (CNS photo/Chaz Muth)

Needless to say, the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops was among the groups that opposed the measure. Deploring its enactment, Bishop Robert E. Barron of Winona-Rochester, Minnesota, chairman of the bishops’ family committee, said social and legal developments over several decades had produced the result of separating sexuality, childbearing, and marriage from one another in many people’s thinking. “Much of society has lost sight of the purpose of marriage and now equates it with adults’ companionship,” he said.

Numbers bear out the conclusion that these have not been healthy years for natural marriage in America. In 2020 both the marriage rate and the birth rate fell to record lows. While covid likely was part of the explanation for that, the figures have risen only marginally since then.

So, what’s the good news?

March 7 saw the establishment of a Congressional Family Caucus to protect and promote the interests of the natural family. In a letter to fellow legislators, co-chair Rep. Mary Miller (R-IL) explained the new entity in refreshingly uncompromising terms: “The natural family, a man and a woman committed for life to each other and to their children, was ordained by God as the foundation of our society. The natural family is essential for a nation to prosper because the family is the root of self-government, service, community, and personal responsibility.”

Joining Rep. Miller, a grandmother and second-term congressperson from a rural Illinois district, as co-chairs of the new group are Rep. Diana Harshbarger (R-TN) and Rep. Brian Babin (R-TX).

According to Tom McDonough, executive director of a group called the American Family Project that has advocated for such a body, well-intentioned members of Congress “often lack the language and sometimes the courage to confront the anti-family, anti-natalist narrative of the progressives.” He said the Family Caucus would provide a “platform” for pro-family thinkers to provide them with information and ideas and be a place for developing pro-family legislation and strategizing opposition to anti-family proposals.

Andrew D. Cannon’s recent book “Mere Marriage” (Alphonsus Publishing) — an analysis of Pope St. John Paul II’s teaching in relation to Pope St. Paul VI’s encyclical “Humanae Vitae” — contains this sentence: “When the dragons are slain and the curtain falls on our culture wars, a stronger and more confident faith will emerge.”

The Congressional Family Caucus gives members of Congress who support natural marriage a badly needed rallying point. It hasn’t yet slain any dragons, but it is good to know it’s there and sharpening its sword.

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Russell Shaw, a veteran journalist and writer, is the author of more than 20 books, including three novels.